Meet Jingles
Every December when I was a little girl, my parents would go into the (very scary) attic on the third floor of our house and drag out boxes of Christmas decorations. As they peered into the boxes to see what needed to come down two flights of stairs, I would stand quietly out of the way, hopping from one foot to the other – about as patient as a girl of 4 or 5 can be.
Eventually, one of them would come across Jingles the Elf and hand him to me, and I would scurry downstairs with my prize. This was the opening of the Christmas season: a time of excitement a
nd warmth, family and friends, decorations and a magical visit to Santa.
As you can see from the picture, Jingles was once a fairly dapper elf. He was also beloved by me and my big sister as children – not an easy job, even for a hard-working elf. Over the decades, his bells and collar have been replaced, holes stitched up, and his work apron exchanged for a belt. In recent years, plenty of friends have raised an eyebrow at Jingles. It’s been suggested that he retire. He’s even been called “creepy.”
Jingles, of course, handles this with good cheer, as do I (see current photo). He is one of my oldest friends and most treasured possessions. He has witnessed all of my Christmases and is a constant in a constantly changing world. Despite sadness or losses that have accumulated through the years, Jingles reminds me of the wonder, innocent delight, and joy of the season. Sure, Jingles and I have seen our share of challenges, but we’re both happy to welcome another Christmas with a smile and open heart.
When I look at Jingles, I see him as his perfect, magnificent, capable elf self. I can feel all the love he has been given through the decades and all the joy he gives back. When I am with Jingles, I am in the presence of Christmas magic.
Perhaps you’ve lost a bell or two. Maybe you had to get a new belt and someone had to help you sew a new collar. Despite your challenges, know that you, too, are loved as your perfect, current self – and seen as the amazing spirit and beautiful person you are.
May we all receive the love of the season. Warmest wishes for the holidays.